No matter in what kind of relationship, emotional manipulation will happen all the time. It is also inevitable for gay men when they are in a gay relationship. Whether they meet their boyfriend on a gay dating app or in a bar, they will go through this kind of process. It can be small and it can also be more serious than you think. The first thing you have to figure out is whether you are being emotionally manipulated by your boyfriend. Before you get hurt from this kind of relationship, you should start to protect yourself and find another perfect partner on another gay hookup app.
First, you can try to think that whether he uses some ridiculous words to force you to do things that you don’t want to do. Really, when someone loves you, he will never try to make you to do anything that will make you uncomfortable. So, if your boyfriend that you meet on a gay chat app always ask you to do something that you don’t want to do by using sentence like “if you really love me, you should do it for me”, then this relationship is not something that you should keep. You can absolutely say no to his orders and see how he reacts.
Or, you can recall those situations when you have a fight, whether he always makes himself the victim and wait for your apology. You will never notice their actions on a gay app because you are totally into the happiness of starting a new relationship. But things will be different in the real world. When you have a fight or quarrel, your boyfriend will act like he has nothing to be sorry for you, even if it is he who start the fight and it is he who hurt your heart. They will always be the one who gets hurt and waits for your compromise. Then, you are definitely being emotionally manipulated by your boyfriend in this relationship. Keep an eye on your situation and prepare your way back.
Whether your boyfriend always tries to threaten you? If your answer is yes, then you can consider more for yourself. Gay men always lack of security when they are in a relationship. But that doesn’t mean they can do whatever they want to do without noticing others’ feelings. A healthy man will never be such selfish. But if your boyfriend keeps saying that they will leave you or they will kill themselves if you leave him, then this man should examine himself completely. Most of the time, they will do nothing that will hurt themselves. But you should always be careful when you want to end this relationship.